Quote: I have no problem with the surgery. My point to her was it won't change anything. It's not the problem only an excuse. When I have the surgery she'll find another.
Sounds like you have a cronic complainer--correct one issue and she'll find another. My W was the same way--see my thread. As your W has been on depression meds, I don't recommend my way of dealing with the serial complaints; specifically, calling her on it and making clear my intention not to please the unpleasable as it can't be done. Might I suggest working on the other issues to test this theory.
