Lack, I would advise against having the V unless YOU are sure that's what YOU want. Just my 2 cts. When I married my late husband, he had had a V. For him it was not reversible. Believe me, when he had it done, he never in a million years thought he would wind up D and then marry again.
The guys don't seem to think it's all that big a deal, but I think this is a very big step. I don't know how old you are, but if you're under 50 I would think twice. I'm just saying, at this moment, you don't know exactly where your life is heading.
