I have to say that when he kicked off it was very very frightening, and I aint going there again.

When I split from my ex husband my son took it really very bad, he was only 8 at the time and he took it very badly, he is almost 16 and comming up to leaving school, I cant do this to my son again.

I have asked him to move all the office stuff into 'our' bedroom so that I can then sort out the office for my bedroom, But he is refusing and doesnt want me to leave the bedroom, I have taken to sleeping on the couch until around 3am and then going to bed.
I know this isnt a ideal situation, but its the only thing at the moment that i can do.
we go away for a week next week, he is comming along but thankgoodness he cannot stay the week so it gives me a bit of space.
thanks for you concern
Angie