Peanut:
Sorry to hear that your mate reacted that way.
I haven't seen your earlier posts on this situation. Have you read SSM ?
One of the first lessions is that LD's are not always that way out of spite.
As for your leaving, will a breakup stress the kids more or less than seeing Mummy being struck by her bf and carted off to the hospital? Throwing things and striking inanimate objects has me concerned.


Why didn't I find this years ago?