Also, how did you work through that anger/upset about what H did to you at that time? My W still gets livid when she recalls having to return to work so quickly after our S5 was born (halftime at 2 months, fulltime by 4 months) because I was still training for my work and getting paid a tiny stipend. Are you still angry and if so, how do you deal with it? Importantly, what has H done (if anything) to help reduce/remove this anger/resentment in you toward him? Was it mere forgiveness on your part?
