jdd. Your W had my W beat. My W had 6 cats, 4 dogs, 3 birds, but no drugs. Pets ruined all of the flooring. Down to 3 dogs, 3 cat, and 3 birds.
-------- She still goes out with her GF who uses drugs. --------- Bad indicator. For people to change they have to drop the old addicted friends. I worked in juvenile corrections and say guys getting better, then old friends came around and all/most progress went out the door.
jdd. Hang in there and take care of yourself for now. Do what you feel comfortable doing to help your W. The more you do, the less she has to be responsible for, so don't over do it on anything.
