Hi Tag,

Nice to hear from you It's because it was a pagan wedding and they chose today because it's the Spring Ecquinox (first day of Spring).

Yes I took time to reconcile but even now I don't think I will be truly reconciled until we live in the same house, if that makes sense? I feel a bit down about it because of the wedding.

The reason I took so long, as well, was my own fault, not H's because I got so depressed. That did not do me any favours. I did not know DB'ing for that first year, either.

I hope you might stick around and bail me out if something happens (God forbid) and I hope that one day after you have lived apart for long enough, you might find it in your heart to get it together with your W, or find another lovely lady whom you can practise DB'ing on for the rest of your life!

Thanks for the compliments, Tag, I appreciate you.

Jo.