James - is that what you want, to say good riddence?? Because you are in charge of your own destiny, if you'd rather she didn't visit, you could say. Don't carry on because you don't want to be selfish, live life for you now.
Ignore that if you do want to carry on. I just think that people should do what they really want to do and not what they think they should do.
I am going to go over your sitch now and see if there's anything constructive I can say on your thread. I am a bit tired tho, as I've been to a wedding all day, so bear with me!
