You think my H would kill me in an honour death??!
I was laughing so much I nearly spilt my breakfast. My H is a vegetarian because he doesn't want to take an animal's life so he's hardly gonna bump off the old W!
When I was going through all that court stuff and H was being nasty, I got a call from an insurance company asking me if I wanted �500,000 worth of accidental death cover. I laughed at the salesperson and said 'It would be far too dangerous to have that much money on my life. For half a million quid, my XH would kill me and make it look like an accident!'
The salesperson was speechless, he'd never heard that one before !
I'm sorry your W is so insecure. Technically my H is my XH but I still call him H because we're seeing each other and if we are truly divorced, then it's the nicest divorce I've ever heard of .
Maybe one day, if everything works out well for both of us and our spouses, we could meet. I've been to the States before and will no doubt return again at some point.
I know what you mean about medical problems and separations. That's part of the reason for my breakup as I have a few medical problems (not related to the premature birth) and quite often I'd be in pain and it's difficult for the other spouse because they have to keep making allowances - living with a person in pain is not easy.
Luckily one condition is almost better (only bothers me when I have a cold), the other one I still put up with, but I'm working on that and considering surgery. H thinks I shouldn't do it because it's really drastic and invasive and kind of experimental as success rates vary, so I have not made up my mind yet. I've decided to try homeopathy first, and other things the dr's suggested to me.
There I am going off on a completely different subject I should learn to stick to M/D talk.
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