Dating My (X) H After the Big D

[Nessie]

my H is essentially a nice person (he does have a bit of a nasty streak when angered or hurt) but other than that, he's generally a good guy so I don't think he'd be angry with me being on here, but he is a very private man and he might have an issue with it being discussed online, and specifically he has a problem with sexual content as he 'doesn't want the whole world knowing about my SL'

I have the same concerns about my H stumbling onto my thread. I am extremely open and I know at times because my H is so private that he sees this as a flaw or even as being disloyal. Something I have to work on there. However, right from the start H knew about DB and even had the book for the first 3 months of our separation, even though he didn't read it, and I could pretty much guarantee H has never visited this site.

Your levels of "explicit" are obviously different to mine because a couple of your posts have me blushing and wishing I wasn't still celibate