I am going to copy and paste your paragraph about the computer into an email to my H and ask him to do it. Anything technical just goes in one ear and out the other with me!
I didn't even learn how to email until 2002 when H showed me and set me up on msn messenger so I could talk to him that 6 weeks I was in the States. Fancy getting to 25 years of age and not knowing how to send an email!!
I didn't own a cell phone until 2003 and he taught me how to send text messages as well. I had never done one before, and I was like a kid with a new toy. We sent each other dozens of texts that week while he was helping me practise doing them.
I kind of do the bare minimium of what is required to do my work, and the rest is a mystery!
Re this website; my H is essentially a nice person (he does have a bit of a nasty streak when angered or hurt) but other than that, he's generally a good guy so I don't think he'd be angry with me being on here, but he is a very private man and he might have an issue with it being discussed online, and specifically he has a problem with sexual content as he 'doesn't want the whole world knowing about my SL' (his words when discussing my book).
I haven't been explicit on here (I don't think) - there is no need because people don't need graphic details to know how me and him are getting on.
The SSM forum, I got a bit more explicit because if you are talking about those kind of problems you have to be or you can't discuss it, but that was more to assist others and not to do with my H directly.
Also, the other thing that worried me is, he's quite anti-marriage after everything we have been through (people should have hand-fasting ceremonies, etc) and he views our D as the gateway to a better M, so I can't imagine he'd be that keen on a site called 'DivorceBusting' - lol.
According to him, being NOT married to someone for the rest of your life together, is how the couples of the future should be. I'd settle for that if he got down on one knee and asked me to be his NOTwife for the rest of our days, lol
Then of course, there's the other side of the coin. He might not be bothered at all; he might think it's funny I'm on here and then sign on as someone else and have fun confusing me! Or he might ask me for sex advice or something
He does things like that, he's very 'playful' - likes joking around and winding me up and then laughing and saying 'I gotcha!'.
He was even trying not to grin at me from across the court room, so you can imagine how I had an OMG moment today when he found out about this!!
