I know I just hate the void and the loss. Does anyone else have a helpless feeling when it is happening and there is nothing you can do to help?
Yes, time does heal all wounds I believe. I miss D much less now than I did and I don't dwell on him all of the time. Usually it comes to mind if I am a bit low over something else. But the kids and I really are building a new life and making new friends.
The house was to be listed immediately but I don't want to drag us back to attorney's unless there is absolutely no other option. I know he has no good feelings left for me but I still prefer if possible for it not to end really ugly. Plus going back to the attorney's would be more money that I don't have right now.
He wants to sell it too, he just wants me to do the work is my take on the sitch. But he has always been that way if it is something he doesn't want to deal with he procrastinates.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
