How about a list of the "must dos" and the "nice to dos"?

Then break down the "must dos" into doable chunks.

Would your neighbor be able to run an errand or two?

sorry to hear about your mom..hope she's going to be ok?

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.