I will see if I can find the thread that Calystra's H posted on.
I am sorry you are in this sitch. {{{{{{{{{{Jenny}}}}}}}}}}
I know it can be very confussing to try to even figure out what to say on the board, at least it was for me. I lurked for a while before posting.
I can say that even though my marriage was not saved I believe I was, there are some wonderful supportive people here and I don't know that I would have made it without them to help me through the worst of the mess.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"