I just recently was told about this board, so I haven't had time to figure out where I fit in. Reading everyone else's threads has been very helpful to me.
I read the thread you linked to. I can see the abrupt change there, it felt like what my H did. His was over another woman. But all during our M he was always looking for other woman - he seemed to need that ego boost. Now I think he may have acted on more relationships than I originally thought.
The sad part is he initially did go for C and they said he was co-dependent. He's since then (of course) dropped the therapist and gone on to the 'next one'. I just wish he would have taken the time to heal himself, even if our R didn't survive.
Sorry for the babbling, but reading that thread made my mind go a mile a minute. Too close to the heart I guess!
