Hi Jenny,

I'm not familiar with your sitch but sometimes the WAS does seem to move on quickly and stop speaking. I think that has to do with them focusing elsewhere more than they have actually dealt with the feelings and emotions from the R.

Here is the link to the thread I was referring to although I'm not sure it will give you any insight.

here

Have you read the thread where Calystra's H posted? He was a WAS and they repaired their marriage. He gave some insight into the WAS thinking.

Thank you very much for the thoughts and prayers.

Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"