I'm going through a lot of the same emotions you are. Especially since I've barely been separated and my H has moved on so quickly. And he won't speak to me anymore.
You mention that someone on this BB has done that - is there a post where they talk about it? I'm hoping it would help me to understand where my H is coming from. This all happened so quickly.
No more relationships for me, but I do want to heal the hurts of this situation.