Sherry---if I was the hugging kind I would give you one! I agree with Ellie about his interest in you...especially now that you don't seem as interested in him. The old saying is you always want something you can't have. All WASs have comonalities...hell, my H told me he didn't want to work on the marriage (right now) but he's not leaving. I don't really get that....but it's because he, like your H and everybody else's WAS is confused. You told him what you wanted to, I would stick to your guns about Easter, your Mom seems like she wants to support whatever you decide and that she is willing to watch D4 is a bonus! Just because you don't leave or make him leave within a month or two does not mean you are going back on what you said, this is about you and it's on your timeframe. Do you recall a few weeks ago I was not moving with my H and I was giving him an ultimatum?? The only difference is I didn't say that to him...

Go over and read deerintheheadlights post, she took this all the way....Sage over in piecing is another great inspiration...she has been here a long time and has really insightful posts, she now has a great R with her H who was having an A (I believe EA) at one point...but you know what, she still doubts herself sometimes to because it is human nature.

Make a plan for spring break to go out by yourself and have some fun, if H won't watch the kids find a babysitter.

I also wanted to comment about your GAL allowing him more time to talk on the phone, as you know I struggle with that too. honestly, what's the difference? If you are there all of the time they are going to sneak around to do it. They're still doing it, the difference is we are having fun on our own...we don't NEED our h's...we want them (and sometimes we question why we want them! ) Bottom line is they can't make us happy, or sad or angry or anything else, they don't control our feelings...we do.

Hang in there and have a good weekend! I'm having movie night with the kids, we are watching the Incrdibles tonight!

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