Yeah, Sun, I feel the same way when I read your thread. Our sitches are so similar and our Hs actions, too.
I just really started thinking about summer since we both won't be working, I know I cannot handle the thought of him starting to sneak around and see ow again. I am fairly certain now it is only an EA and he really doesn't sneak around anymore, just hides the #*&^% phone.
So I had to do this for my sanity and my kids. It just isn't fair to them.
Ellie, great idea. I will do that this week during spring break. Get all dressed up and go out. If I don't meet up with friends then I will do something.