When I got home H was in the shower. When he got out I was on the computer. He said "hey" sounding very down. I asked what was wrong. He said he had a headache and crawled into bed and under the covers.
No convo beyond that. He did not ask me about what I did last night this morning either. I was gone past 8 which is unusual for a school night. Oh well...
I have decided to wait until the kids are gone next week to bring up his decision. I have decided that if he doesn't know at that time. I will be gone when his parents come to bring the kids back. He will have to say something to them if I am not around for a few days and nights and not there for Easter.