Actually NY, that is just what I told H---I would move forward like we are going are separate ways since he couldn't give me an answer.

I have looked at apartments on line in the area I would possibly move to. I am in the process of contacting my old principal to see if he has any openings for the next year.
So, I guess I am moving forward as if he has said he is leaving.

Funny thing is I haven't been sad or that upset the last 2 days. Maybe reality hasn't set in.

Unsure, that is one of the problems, my window of time isn't very big right now. If I move, I need to start applying right now, putting the house up for sale and so on.

If I stay in this area (not with H) there isn't such a huge rush except to get H out of the house.

I am also considering the kids and what would be best for them, too (moving or staying with/out H).

Ellie, thanks for stopping by. I like your suggestion.
The only problem is tonight I had the kids so H knows he doesn't have too much to worry about. But... weekends would be great and spring break is next week. Will have to see what I can do.

Once again, everyone here is such a great support.
Thanks,
Sherry