Quote: Well I am meeting a friend tonight and am not telling H. See what he says about that. When I packed some jeans he questioned what I was doing after work. Why does he care???
Sherry - I think this is excellent. Here's a gameplan for you to consider: Imagine, if you will, if you began acting as if you are getting on with your life. In fact, acting as if you are the one having the MLC! Start calling him from work, saying you won't be home until after dinner - then waltz in at 9 or 10 (or later!), dressed as if for a date, and be vague about being out with "a friend". Tell him you are going away for the weekend "by yourself" to "think things over" (might as well borrow some lines from the WAS handbook, eh? ).
Note - I am NOT suggesting you date or have an affair - just let H start to wonder what you MIGHT be up to.
Sometimes once the pressure is off and they sense you might leave before they make a decision, their decision making process suddenly becomes much clearer!
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