And now my H gets home late doesn't sleep where he said he was going to! We had agreed at the MC that he would sleep in the spare bedroom upstairs. Well lo and behold I went outside to smoke and when I came in, OUR bedroom door was closed indicating that was where he was! WTF? So do I just crawl in next to him and pretend that whole conversation about him sleeping elsewhere happened? crap. Or do I go make the bed upstairs and sleep there? That would upset him I'm sure. I'm just not ready for my D's to be involved with this at all. Their rooms are upstairs too. The master is down. In a way, I'm looking at this as he really didn't want to sleep elsewhere for reasons other than he was just too lazy to walk up there. The bed is alreay made for goodness sakes. Oh hell, I'm going to bed in MY bed, with or without him there. Ambien...here I come.
