Sherryl... I think that it is good that he knows that you are serious....although it might hurt. I totally feel where you are coming from when you talk about giving him free access to talk to the OW when you wernt around. We try and do better for ourselves but at the same time we make it easier for them. We dont want them to think that we are sad all of the time and staying home to sulk...but we want them to know that we are happy and have a life too! I will never understand how a person can have an affair....I understand being unhappy...but a marriage is not a consant happiness,,,it is something that needs to be worked on daily. We should have to worry about our Spouse running out and trying to find happiness is someone else. It isnt fair that they have the mentality that helps them believe that a new intrest outways a marriage....Hang in there! Sorry if I am babbling....but I know how you are feeling!
