I know you are struggling right now, the only thing I can say is DO NOT mention it to him again,. DO NOT ask him if he has made a decision. Do what you need to do for you, and continue to GAL. If you feel that you need him to tell you what he is doing than that is what you wait for, if you feel his actions will be enough than go with that. But if his actions are still sending missed messages (ie 4000 minutes to ow but agreeing to go to dinner with you and friends) than move on. If it does come down to separation make sure you keep the door open if that is what you want. Keep DBing, remember it's about YOU!
One question, how can he not be a kid person if he is a teacher????
