Unfortunately our spouses are acting in ways that are not very pleasant. We are putting up with a lot and keeping alot inside as we try to rebuild our M. What we are seeing is not what we fell in love with. I think the names are just frustration and venting because we can't do it to them. So we come here. We all love our spouses or would not be doing this. You don't see a lot of name calling here which is good. But I think every once in a while, it helps. Just my thoughts.
Sorry NY, I did not understand your response about fear. Thanks for clearing it up.
