You know where I am in my deal. I've come real close do doing the ultimatum thing just like you did. In my opinion, you did nothing wrong. I wish I had the b***s to do what you did this morning. None of us can physically be there but you've got to know, we're here for you even if only through an internet connection.
Sherry, I'm getting close to dropping the "after the last resort" conversation on my W even though she is already out of the house. I chicken out because like NY said, you have to be willing to stick to it once you've dropped the news. I'm not ready to do that. But you, you showed us all the strength it takes to stand up for yourself. Cry all you want to, you're better than him dammit!
If you need to vent, chat, question or anything else away from the board, please do not hesitate to email me at: matthewf@surfcity.net