Sherry,Sun- This has been driving me to rolaids for months now- I gotta ask you both- Who the hell do you guys have a cell phone plan with that you get these outrageous bills every month.??? Don't really tell me, though. If your H's insist that they talk to these OW the LEAST they can do is make sure they have a free mobile to mobile, or get a rate plan that has lots of anytime minutes or free nights or something!!! I can't believe you guys are letting them put you into financial fiascos every month with this cell phone crap. When my H suddenly came home with the phone under the guise of it was for when we go out on the bike, and not one day later I find out shes been calling him non stop (it was in the beginning so she had alot of her tale to tell and snare my H with). I asked how do you not pay alot for minutes and he said they have free mobile to mobile. A few months later her H smashed her phone, so now my H had to up his minutes plan ( we were apart by then , i now had my own phone, same as H's ,so at least if WE talked it was free as well). Last time I discussed phones with him he said he hardly uses his 1,000 minutes (she must have gotten a new phone with the same plan they had before) . If they are gonna talk to these OW, make them get their own damn phone and pay the bill out of their money. I realize you are both still paying bills together this may be tough. WHEW! Had to get that off my chest.
