Sherry I'm so sorry! Damn those phones and technology! H's cell phone has been such a source of anger, hurt and everything else. I understand how upset you are.
I'm a little confused by the coming out and then holding you all night. Did he speak at all during the holding? And isn't it weird how you can say the things you did to him and he say NOTHING?!? My H has done the same thing to SO many things I've said to him. Important things that I feel need a response immediately, yet he still just looks at me like he's mute.
Do you think he's mulling over his "choice" or do you think he's made up his mind? He still sounds confused to me. I say that since your situation is parallel to mine and that's what everyone keeps telling me. I know we can't force our H's to stop calling their OW, that's got to be something they decide for themselves. I'm heartbroken for you. Keep us posted. We're here to listen!
