I have watched alot of moview too about affairs...It seems like they make a lot of them. Alot of them I watched with H and he did not utter a word. The best one was little black book, have you seen it? It kind of hit home in our sitch because she was spying (which I did) and he had this whole other life she had no clue about. Anyway after the movie was over I said to H, that was a good movie and he agreed! My H does not think that he is THOSE people who cheat. He thinks he is a confused person and obviously has no problem doing whatever the hell he feels like. My H is disaccociating himself with that behavior. Not good for me, but that is what I see. Your H probably sensed your anger and was afraid to inquire why because you have not brought it up in so long, he thinks it is coming and doesnt want to open pandoras box. That is what I see.
