The thing about his response and why it made me curious was that has not been his usual response to my anger esp. if he thinks I am mad at him. Anyway, can't figure it out, so I will stop thinking about it.
Good move. And maybe his response wasn't about being mad at you? But like you wrote, no need to think about it.
I think that is a good sign. Any thoughts?
Oh yes Look for baby steps, not signs. Look for actions, not words.
And here's something to think about when it comes to looking for signs and analyzing looks on faces, remarks, actions, yadda, yadda:
Things aren't always what they appear to be. Things could be working out in our favor, and we don't see it, because a big neon sign doesn't start flashing. What's going on in invisible, mostly. Because of that, there's the tendency to look at a lot of little things and try to figure out if it's a positive or not, to see if we're on the right track or not. But because we can't really tell... something that looks like a negative might actually turn out to work for the positive... and vice versa... we should just stick with the overall game plan and keep on doing what we're doing for the most part, focusing on the major strategies. Doing that keeps us consistent in our approach rather than changing it needlessly or prematurely with every different presumed interpretation of our WAS's moods and actions.
Besides, it's not any one thing that's going to change everything. He may agree to go, and then in two days, decide he doesn't want to go. Or he may end up going and react negatively about it, or vice versa, and what seemed like a positive becomes a negative... or vice versa... See what I mean?
Look for baby steps, not signs. Look for actions, not words.
