The thing about his response and why it made me curious was that has not been his usual response to my anger esp. if he thinks I am mad at him. Anyway, can't figure it out, so I will stop thinking about it.
Another interesting thing happened yesterday that I forgot to mention. We have a friend who knows the situation. We used to do things with them(her and her husband-he knows too) all the time. She has been wonderful and a great support for me. She is working on forgiving H and wants us to continue our friedship (as couples).
Well she wanted us to go out to eat about 3 to 4 weeks ago. I asked H and he said he really didn't want to do that. So, I said that was fine and we didn't go.
Yesterday she talked to H and suggested going out again. I asked H and he said that we could do that. He had had a few drinks so I will ask him again to make sure but he wasn't drunk or even close to it.
