Thank you for your support of my plan to change. DIL wasn't thrilled to hear I would not be in charge of the timing of Easter egg hunt, which day big meal will be etc. I told her I'd have food. No commitment to big bash. D27 and clan arriving in the middle of noc from 10 hours away.....and a day early.....
H was civil on phone. H knows "duty" to keep peace with the hormonal D's and silent S's (smart men). WW3 could begin in my apartment.... H is due for some parenting time and they will be mad kinda at him. The grandkids are too cute....
I'm just trying to sort out all this. Let go, detach, enjoy family. I can DR and survive. I will try. I can do my best.