I've been more positive.
Meeting goals is more difficult with D17 having shopping fever, I used it as a walking event and that worked ok.

Last conversation with H was monotone but I did end call first (ok so I called him and blew that goal too)

Family starts arriving over next 3 days.
How do I DR and not cave in to the typical routine of I do all the prep work and don't enjoy the time with family. Can I 180 this do you think?
homemade yeast rolls from scratch--use store ones
crock pot meals instead of multiple dishes or even

bake brownies and cookies tonight and forget fancier ones

goal: to focus on family time frozen entress

THE REAL ISSUE TODAY
Last year OW made her move on my H during this week, H felt sorry for her and had invited her to our Easter family dinner. Everyone left very early...she drove em nuts. (I did tell H this hurt me, H didn't care) A escalted after this.
How do I DB/DR this? I'm pretty sad right now. Just want to be ugly and angry at H for the memory. Wrong


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