Thanks for the post. I am just getting into DR (had DB) and it is so much clearer to me. You are right, my issue is what am I gonna do and will I continue this R........ I am commiting to our M but not the style we had before since it wasn't good for either of us. So, building trust can be a back burner issue. Now, I have to think about what I want in the M. 1. Friendship which would be spending time together and liking the time spent not enduring 2. Honest and openess in all areas. Only I'm not sure how to make that concrete goal. Maybe...
But, those are two big ones for me.
I went to your thread and it really was helpful, I'm needing to print out part of it and think about some of the Q&A's that run through it. They are right on where I'm at. Thanks
