I found on page 114 DB : "The disadvantage of blaming someone else for causing the difficulty is that the solution is out of your control." I'm thinking that I have to change how I think and stop blaming. Any ideas on how to build trust? Anything that worked for you as you rebuild? I do have some general small goals: 1. Spend time together on Sunday 2. Talk 3 times a week on phone 3. Try to build H up by positive statements about good things he has done recently...ie sent money to our college kid (very good thing he did, no matter the amount just that he did it) 4. Find the positives about being together.
