The first and most important thing for you to do, is to protect your children.
Your wife does not have their best interest at heart right now.
Since you are male, you will have a doubly difficult time in seeing to your children's needs in our current legal environment. Get yourself a good lawyer ASAP. DO NOT WAIT!
Get your finances separated NOW. Don't tell your wife what you are doing, just do it. If you have joint credit cards, cancel them. Leave one joint checking account to pay bills from, remove all but the funds needed to cover joint expenses.
Go and read all the posts between csw and me.
I can't help you walk through this right now, I am at max extension, but there are resources available.
Does csw have your email address?
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
