No, I haven't. The time hasn't been right. When it is, I will follow the the advice of NOPkins and the lead of csw. I will be a Man-of-Steel. Confronting her about it will only serve to drive her further away and more underground. Since, I can't control her...and admitting that to myself has been a VERY difficult thing to accept in all this...she is going to do what she does. So, I will wait for the right time to bring it up.
This is a hard path to walk. But, ya know what...I'm finding that when I work on ME...what she does or doesn't do...has little impact on me. It's when I focus on her that I get moody.
