I had a thought for you (hopefully helpful, not offensive ). Have you ever considered that maybe you hold a certain amount of resentment towards your W because although you worship her like you worshipped your six older sisters, she couldn't give you the level of attention that you would have received as a child being the baby boy in a large family of girls? My H has indicated that he might have problems along this line that are contributing to the sex issue. His mother is a completely doting, clingy mother-hen kind of mother (she tried to take him clothes shopping when he was in his 30s, repeatedly ) and so he simultaneously craves and repulses this kind of attention from me. Just a thought. Hang tough.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
). Have you ever considered that maybe you hold a certain amount of resentment towards your W because although you worship her like you worshipped your six older sisters, she couldn't give you the level of attention that you would have received as a child being the baby boy in a large family of girls? My H has indicated that he might have problems along this line that are contributing to the sex issue. His mother is a completely doting, clingy mother-hen kind of mother (she tried to take him clothes shopping when he was in his 30s, repeatedly 
