I did not talk about OM. We talked finances, primarily. I am taking great care to formulate my discussion strategy, otherwise I will quickly derail and become a man of feel. W admitted not revealing her feelings over the years, and we agreed to further counsel. I am very close to the OM talk, but I need my wits about me, or I may blow it. I do want to trust W, but I have been looking for evidence. The check that caused worry last week was still folded in her coat pocket, so no other bank acct... Slow and easy is my mantra. I don't want to push her out by doing something stupid.
Last night was fun. I will try again tonight. If I get a kiss, I suppose I am ahead of the game!