NY - except that H is NOT initiating R talk at all - that's what he told me when he dropped the Bomb and before I started DBing and used to force him to talk - he hasn't initiated anything! (by the way - just came back from working out - felt good and at least that was 90 minutes that I didn't check his cell phone)
Soccermom - ouch! Not trying to "one up" you here, but imagine how painful it is to initiate ML - when your confidence is shot, while another of his MAJOR complaints is your not initiating ML enough - and then have him not even, how shall I say, reach a satisfying conclusion himself and then fake falling asleep - and then the next morning tell you that remember, he's planning to move out this month. And THEN - ask you to brunch with him - WTF????? How painful was THAT trying to keep from crying on my pancakes? And if the "180" from NOT initiating sex ends up like that, how on EARTH am I supposed to humiliate myself like that again?
Sorry to rant - I'm stressed from trying to ignore this cell phone on the shelf next to me...
