Where have you been all my life. I love reading what you have to say. It all makes so much sense. Not easy, just practical. I love how you say it in such a nice way. It's not the "That was such a dumb thing to do!" It's like you're the epitomy of how to talk to our S's if we get emotional. you seem to be in emotional control. I've snooped only once in the last 24 hours and that is huge progress.
My goals for the rest of the day: 1. Exercise 2. Hang a shelf (requires borrowing a drill/electric screwdriver) 3. Going out to dinner w/ F's 4. Visiting an old F 5. Prepare my Sunday school lesson
That should keep me busy ~ and away from H's privacy.
Soccermom, keep the faith. Just take it moment by moment and relax. It's going to work itself out the way it should, and when you realize how much control you have over the sitch, then you'll calm down and be able to choose what's best for you. He did what he did and he probably didn't even think about you at all. My H told me that he didn't even think about me at all. You have to realize that WAS's are trying to cover their own pain and can't really look at the LBS with any sort of emotion because then they might not be able to justify their own behavior.
Sorry for the ramble. Enjoy your weekend. The work week will be here before you can blink. SNL333
