Just a quick note--H works on Saturdays and this morning when the alarm went off I asked if I could come over (to his side and snuggle) for a minute. I asked because I know he likes to be left alone when he's getting the last few minutes of sleep and I wanted to respect that--but if he'd let me, that's what I wanted to do. Well he said no. I was a little hurt but I reminded myself that it wasn't personal, he just wants to sleep a few more minutes. So I layed there a few more minutes and acted as if I was fine with it and then got up and went about my day. He got ready for work and came out of the bedroom to go and he came over and kissed me goodbye!!! Ah Ha! I know that was his way of compromising. He doesn't usually want to kiss goodbye so I know that was just for me. And that compromise is fine with me and means alot too.