I felt I better jump in here and say something. I too have been trying to figure out how to get myself more independant/GLA. When W would encourage me to do so in times past, I kind of knew she was trying to get more time with other people, sometimes OM. So needless to say, I was hesitant and tried to stay unpredictable. Although OM seems to be long out of picture, I don't want to go too far off the deep end either, I do have other responsibilities.
Thinking back I do remember in the older college days where W would come to my apartment, hang out at my place, and I did not focus too much on making things revolve around just her. I was busy with my friends and activities. Those were good times, but I don't want to make my R second priority. Where do you find the balance?
