Sometimes, this is actually fun or funny! I was feeling that old feeling of anxiety, needing reassurance. I hadn't talked to H this morning cuz I left before he got up. So later on this morning, I decided to call just to say hi--he answered the phone and in my best happy voice I said, "hi sweetie, how are you today?"
He said, "what do you want?" I said just wanted to call. He again said, "what do you want". I kept saying I just was thinking about him and wanted to talk to him for a minute, see how he was. I could tell he was waiting for more. I just laughed and said "you're waiting for the other shop to drop, aren't you?" He said he was and I just told him I wanted to know how he was and hoped he had a great rest of the day! I could hear him relax a bit and he said ok, talk to you later!
One more victory for me! 180s are good even when you are back together. He just knew I must want something from him