T-thanks for tracking me down. I appreciate your advice and encouragement. I really try to do all my venting here. I realized my family and friends didn't want to hear it even though they were supportive. And I don't vent so much anymore. That was part of my victim behavior--b*tch but don't do anything about it! Poor me! Wow, I hated that about myself. Not doing it anymore!!!
You're right, the obsessing sneaks up on me sometimes, but I am so much better at it. And I do GAL. I've got lots to do when he isn't around.
I look forward to following your progress. Patience!