I tracked you down from your psot on my thread. Keep a handle on that obsessing thing. It gets to me too so I know. GAL but don't exclude him from it. Keep as active as possible and "plan" things with him. "Fit" him into your busy schedule. Am I making sense here? It is so hard not to want to spend every available minute with them but that will cause burn out. Plan together time and alone time. Watch the venting, it is possible to overdo that quite easily. Vent it and drop it. Sometimes I will write out my vent and then delete it. My point was made without anyone else's input and then it was done. Game over, move on. Take breaks from here too. A couple days helps to keep perspective especially when the obsession bug is biting. It will be here when you get back. Just some thoughts, hope they help. TBONE
