Quote: I'm sorry now that I didn't say anything but he NEVER apologizes for anything. He is usually defensive and I think it is because I would usually go into attack mode and not give him time to process and come up with a solution. WOW!
yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. I'm betting that you are 100% correct on what was different about this time. WAITING and letting my h process stuff on his own time frame has made a HUGE difference in our interactions.
Good for you for your role in the exchange! You did a GREAT job!!!
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
