Hyey, dont feel bad... i felt the same whn h came back home... and yes, we feel like we were evaluated each time we speake, do anything... By the other side, yes, it is easy to return to what we useto be... specially if we werent doing anything so wrong, just being ourlseves.. But when MLC cames around, the persistence part is so important and we need to focus on maintaining our changes, specially that changes that improve us, makes us growth, as a woman...!!... It is so easy to take fr granted many things on M... but sometimes, we felt like that bc we felt they also doesnt do too much... it is like you are working out alone... he is the same, doing the same... and you are so stress and obssesed abut not doing the same... But mayb he is doing changes... he is trying, only in a different way and can be a great job trying to identify his efforts, his ways to say: hey, i care about changing our M... In my case, now i realize that moment didnt came to my h yet... he wants something different but it is so tied of the commmon and past way to be... it is so difficult for him to break the past R and rebuild a new one... althugh i admit he had done some great changes... i dont know if that can be bc we arent in love anymore... i dont know if that can be bc we cant have a different R... right now i am trying har to act as if... trying to be the most happy woman... being myself... and trying to recover that changes, that bc their up and dwn mood, i stop aplying in my life... like going out with friends, caring about my own space, professinal realization, being happy...!!... i think that changes are the most imprtant and has the best effect on a MLC man... Good luck... and stay around Andrea
