Molli Thanks for the advice. Its really difficult to talk to your H when you are in a separation. Sometimes we seem like strangers and sometimes like us again.
I am usually the one to initiate the contact. Most of the time a short text message, then he will call or text back. Sometimes he doesnt. Im going for something different now and trying to be a friend.
He says he still cares very much for me, but doesnt think the marriage will work.Going dark right now doesnt give me the opportunity to show any changes, so I decided to keep contact, keep it short, conversation light and not about us or me.
He once told me months ago that he liked our phone conversation, it made him want to be near me. I always remembered those words.
